An Unwarranted Epithalamion   A few words from a guy who has no right — divorced and now living in sin — to say a single thing about marriage. I might mention someone else’s wisdom, though, way beyond my meager punditry. This friend advises never going to bed mad if there’s still time to set things right, and when life gives you lemons, suck it up. Be glad every day — you’ve got each other. Declare your love like you mean it — and by the way, love declares itself strangely — roundabout, oblique at times, hard to read. So be fair, visualize happiness, live for the day, et cetera. Love? You’ll figure it out.                                                 for Adam & Bailey     © Michael Fleming Dummerston, Vermont August 2025